My husbands real father was never in his life. He was raised by his step-father. He was even givin the name of his step father. I asked him once if he would like to go and visit his real dad. He told me that the man that raised him was his dad. My husband is liveing proof that there are men out there how will love a child even if it is not his. A man that will go the extra mile to make a child happy. Wheter or not that chid is his. Any man can be a Father, but it takes a specil man to be a Daddy.