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Memories of Debbie

Oh how I grieve for you. I feel that your life has been cut short. It has ended too soon. Mom, know that myself, Marlo, and Mom and Dad love you so very much. We did everything possible to make your life happy and comfortable. We cherished every moment with you. You are and have been my best friend. You are not less in our chain of love. I think about all the time we spent together. I just can't get over how much you were there for me. I don't think any daughter was so lucky. Even when I was far away, which I was for the most part, you were there for me. On the phone all day and on the computer. You never turned me away. Never. What a beautiful gift that is. You are so devoted. So loving. I am grateful for you. I am blessed. I remember when the doctor told us that the end was near. That was tragic. That was the worst thing I could have ever imagined. What a feeling. Emptiness. Sadness. Loneliness. Oh dear. What do I do. Thankfully though you were able to be home for most of the time. To spend your remaining days with your family. Your Mother, Father and Myself. I only hope that you did not suffer in silence. I thought you were doing so much better until, only a few days before you died, you got sick again. It is time..... Time to give up your body to the earth and set your soul free. It was time for you to become a child again. To be reborn. Today though we grieve. You will always be in my heart sweet mother. I will never forget you. I look forward to the day that I can meet you over the rainbow bridge. To see you painless, laughing, and so much better. I cannot wait. So please Mom, wait for us all. We will all be together in your world again. The difference will be, there will be no sickness. No pain. No fear. Just pure, natural, bliss. I love you always Mom. Please Rest In Peace!!!!! September 24, 2009 Happy Birthday Mom. It has been 5 months since you passed. Up until now, I couldn't come up with the words to write this. It was as though a thought just couldn't come to my mind other then how much I missed you. I couldn't even bring myself to write that. I wanted more. I think in some ways the pain is even greater now as the realization has really set in. When you were diagnosed with Pulmonary Arterial Hypertension 3 years ago, the doctors told us you would not make it the weekend. Like the stubborn lady you were, you showed them wrong. You managed to jump back up and push through for almost 3 years with just a little medical assistance. I guess time catches up to us all though. Things started to slip until you had to go back to the hospital. When Janice called and told me to fly home from Halifax that next morning, I was so scared. I almost didn't want to do it. Everyone told me how scary it would be to see you the way you were. When I got to the hospital that Friday, April 10th at around 1pm, I almost died at that moment. I was so happy that you lit up like a Christmas tree when you seen me and so sad that you looked so small in that room with everything around you. We spent the day talking as though everything was going to be alright. We talked about past memories and about your grandsons. I fought the tears back so you wouldn't be scared even though I believe you already knew it was coming. That evening, god came for you. I wish I could say that it was peaceful but it was not. But come 10pm, you were peaceful. That is all that matters now. No more suffering for you mom. But you were too young mom. Now it is time to try and remember all the good things you brought into our lives. You were strong, stubborn, funny, caring and loving. You were a great cook, great mother, great daughter and great grandmother. You loved going to see the air show at the CNE every year. You were also a creature of habit. God forbid we wanted to try and change you in any way.  You raised Janice and I to be great people. You raised my son into a loving person while I worked and went to school. I now know what love is. Love = Mom. 09/24/54 - 04/10/09 R.I.P Mom. December 25, 2009 Merry Christmas mom. Janice and I miss and love you so much. See you again one day. April 21, 2010 Just over one year has past mom since you passed away. It still feels like a fresh wound but time has lessened the pain a bit. Janice and I still miss you with every beating heart. We hope you are doing better up there. We love you. April 10, 2011 Two years mom it still feels like it is just yesterday. Every beat of my heart is wracked with the pain of missing you. So much time has passed since I have been here and I am sorry for that. Things have been tough with grandpa passing this last November. I hope you are taking care of each other. I wish I could see you both again. So many things I feel I am missing out on. :( You were too young. September 24, 2011 Hi mom. Janice, Jordan, Logan, Sean, grandma and I just wanted to say Happy Birthday to you. I can't believe how much I miss not being able to say that to you in person. I feel I lost my best friend. I pray that you are happy and can't wait to see you again one day. We love you so much mom. You and grandpa look out for each other up there.

Survived by: Mother - Dorthy McKay , Brother - Jim McKay, Daughter's - Janice Starr and Marlo Archer, Grandson's - Jordan Archer, Sean Starr and Logan Starr.

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